Adventures in Maturity
aka "The 13th Warrior Cartoon Porn Show"
by Gordon Dymowski
First, an explanation about the subtitle - as I wrote in the Shrub's
guest book, since my page doesn't receive a heck of a lot of hits, I'm
attempting to beef it up. The most frequent key words were "13th
Warrior", "Cartoon" and "Porn", well, I'm sticking those words in. That
way, more than just me and my friends can read this. So from now on, it
will be the "13th Warrior Cartoon Porn Show", featuring Antonio Banderas
as a wacky animated warrior who goes around...well, this is a
PG-rated page. Keep your minds firmly in the gutter, folks...
Well, as you guys know, I do nothing but work and watch tv, for as we all
know, after you hit 25, it's all downhill from there. One of my favorite
shows is Titus on Fox. It's about a wacky guy (played by
Christopher Titus) who grew up in a dysfunctional family. His dad drank
and had multiple wives; his mom was a schizophrenic. Yep, and it's on
just after That 70's Show. (Kids, just know this - I was a child in the 1970s. I'm still
suffering from posttraumatic stress disorder because of it.) But anyway,
watching that show led me to this month's topic (well, that and
desperation, but that's more...)
Families are odd entities...people who normally would have nothing to do
with each other, related only by blood. Yep, when it comes to the genetic
crap shoot, some of us get the short end of the stick. Some of us are
lucky - I, for one, never have to worry about male pattern baldness, but
alas, I will forever be stuck as a Supercuts customer. Plus, let's face
it - there's really no such thing as a "functional" family - each Shrub
staffer has their own particular set of neuroses, given to them by the
people they love, and the unique family situations. (The only exception
is the long-lost Robot from the Future, who was strung together from a
Folgers coffee can, an old erector set, parts from an old Pong game, some
bell wire, a 9 volt battery, and a Walkman playing a continuous loop of
Barry Manilow's Greatest Hits).
What the hell am I trying to say here? Families are, at best, tolerable.
By the time you read this, you'll either be planning to spend the summer
with your family, or the summer avoiding your family. We are a product of
our dysfunctions - let's face it, my mom's side of the family is
reminiscent of The Simpsons as written by Sartre and Camus, and my
dad's side is so deep in denial it's not even funny. But on the other
hand, I now have the responsibility to avoid spreading the dysfunction,
and to be somewhat healthy for my kids, when I have them. Of course, I
can barely take care of my cat, so that may be an indicator that
parenthood ain't for me. I think it's nap time.
If you have any questions, or want to encourage me in the book I'm
writing, e-mail me at Gordon_D@theshrubbery.com, and I'll respond in a timely manner.
Heck, maybe next month I'll even have a real column, instead of
this one written in the midst of an Oreo-and-Mountain-Dew binge.